1. Not everyone who calls you “babe” is serious.
Some people just need someone to keep them company while their real love interest is ignoring them.


2. Don’t carry relationship on your head like gala.
Love is sweet, but no be by force. If you’re doing everything and they’re doing bare minimum, shine your eyes.

3. Just because you prayed together doesn’t mean you’ll end up together.
Even Judas dined with Jesus.


4. Avoid soft boys/girls that are jobless but always at The Palms or chilling in Lekki.
Their real hustle might be emotional fraud.


5. Love is not enough.
If both of you don’t have vision, values, or small money, the relationship will feel like group project with one person doing all the work.
6. If you’re hiding your partner from your friends, your spirit knows something is wrong.
Stop forcing what your heart is rejecting.


7. Date someone who gives you peace, not high blood pressure.
If every week it’s one drama or the other, you’re not in love — you’re in a TV series.

Bonus:
You deserve soft love. No be every time “we go manage.” Sometimes, manage yourself and wait for better love.
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Nice update