BE CAREFUL WHOM YOU SEEK RELATIONSHIP ADVICE FROM. 🤔
People might end up giving you advice base on:
Their own perspective : Friends and family may have preconceived notions about your partner or relationship but you know and understands better.
Unknown personal agendas: Some people might have their own interests or motivations for offering advice it might be negative and might be positive, it's not everyone the puts on a small around you that are happy for you, so you orth to be careful.
Lack of expertise: Not everyone has the knowledge or experience to provide sound relationship guidance.
Different values and beliefs: Advice from someone with conflicting values can lead to confusion and h*rm, this isn't because they necessarily have an interior motive but it's actually what they believe in.
Unrealistic expectations: Some advisors might promote idealistic or unattainable relationship standards, over exaggerating things and jumping into conclusion.
Preferably if you must seek advice you should consider:
*Trusted, neutral parties, *Experienced therapists or counselors * A known, respected relationship coaches. *Wise, empathetic mentors *Your own intuition and inner voice, most times they're not wrong, you know better because you are the one in the shoes.