If You Are a Single Lady Who Wishes to Get Married Someday, This Is for You
I have always seen posts on social media where people say, “Ladies marry who is ready, not who they love.”
This comes from real-life experiences where some married women end up having affairs with their former lovers.
Beloved sister, as an elder brother, let me speak to you. Your biological clock is different from that of a man. You will experience menopause; we will not. Society places a certain expectation on you, and when you are not married at a particular age, the pressure can begin to make you look older than you are.
So time is of the essence, and you must be wise.
You see all those “let’s see how it goes” relationships? You do not need them. Do not start an adventure in the wrong direction. By the time you realize where it is leading, you may have wasted five years and ended up as the victim.
If you stay, there is no guarantee he will marry you. If you leave, society may call you an opportunist. If care is not taken, you might find yourself trapped in a strange dilemma.
This is why I always advise you to enter a relationship when you are ready for marriage and with someone who is also ready—not just saying they are ready but showing it.
He should have something he is doing, a place to stay or the resources to get one, and a clear desire for marriage with you. Do not just fall for faith talks and sweet words.
Ask questions. If you do not get satisfactory answers, please enjoy your singleness. Serve God, develop yourself, and wait patiently for the right person.
Stop sharing your heart like Suya. Purpose first before partner. Good men still exist. They are looking for women of value. Place value on yourself, and you will see them come around.
Once again, this message is strictly for ladies who desire to get married.
I am your teacher. I have been around for a while, and I know these things.
This Is For You